August 27, 2011
Don't do it.
Okay, ladies. We ALL know how hard it is not to go back to the cowardly douche bags that broke our hearts. Despite the harsh things they say that you'd never think could come out their mouths, you still want to get back together with them. What we fail to realize that we're degrading ourselves and looking completely idiotic by going back to them. STAY AWAY. It's better to be single than to be in a relationship that was already torn apart. You know it's not going to last, so why are you going back? You know that you're never going to forget all the things he said to you, it's burned into your head. So why are you going back? Most of us go back because you are scared of being single, walking into school by yourself, etc. It's not THAT bad, it just takes some time getting used to. Trust me, I know. I've been there. Restrain from lowering yourself to that level. Because honey, once you do, he's going to think he can get away with anything and everything and that you're always going to forgive him for whatever it is he does to you. And truth is, you would. He could cheat and straight face lie and you're still going to forgive him. SUCK UP YOUR PRIDE AND END IT. Then, give it time. He's going to come back, sooner or later he will come back. And he's going to regret ever treating you the way he did. He's going to realize that you've moved on to better things and he's going to kick himself in the nut sack for not treating you like a princess. Be independent, and strong. It's okay to cry and to be hurt, just don't go running back.
August 13, 2011
What's it like?
Today someone asked me what it felt like to be in love, and I ended up replying with a 5 page text message and had to reword it to make it much shorter. So guess what this blog is about?!
I love having something to look forward to everyday, and I love the "good morning" texts and random drop by's. The little things that we do for each other just to make the other one smile, like putting a horrid color on your braces just because it's his favorite football team, or actually wearing the logo even though the color just doesn't work with you. Or painting your nails his favorite color. How he's so tall so you have to get up on the tips of your toes just to kiss him. How your hands are just so tiny compared to his. Or you're like Capser the ghost, and he looks like someone that just walked off Jersey Shore, and how he makes fun of you for it. Or how if you act mad at him he just starts to tickle you, even though he knows you hate it. How he takes your sunglasses, and then lets you wear his when it's really bright outside. The feeling you get when he's on his way over. Or how he carries you across the deep end of the pool. How we plan our whole life together. How we can be with each other every minute of every day and the moment we aren't together we already miss each other like it's been months. When you catch yourself saving sweet texts from him in your phone just so you can read them again when he falls asleep on you. Most girls are so concerned with how they look when they're around their boyfriend, but now that I think about it, I don't think I've ever legitimately done my hair or anything when I hang out with him.. and he still calls me beautiful. How he'll watch The Secret Life of an American Teenager with me, and ask questions about it the entire time just to sound intrested. How he gets me green tea just because I'm craving it. He'll do anything in the world for me and I love it. I love him, so much.
Next to getting your nails and hair done, it's the best feeling in the world.
I love having something to look forward to everyday, and I love the "good morning" texts and random drop by's. The little things that we do for each other just to make the other one smile, like putting a horrid color on your braces just because it's his favorite football team, or actually wearing the logo even though the color just doesn't work with you. Or painting your nails his favorite color. How he's so tall so you have to get up on the tips of your toes just to kiss him. How your hands are just so tiny compared to his. Or you're like Capser the ghost, and he looks like someone that just walked off Jersey Shore, and how he makes fun of you for it. Or how if you act mad at him he just starts to tickle you, even though he knows you hate it. How he takes your sunglasses, and then lets you wear his when it's really bright outside. The feeling you get when he's on his way over. Or how he carries you across the deep end of the pool. How we plan our whole life together. How we can be with each other every minute of every day and the moment we aren't together we already miss each other like it's been months. When you catch yourself saving sweet texts from him in your phone just so you can read them again when he falls asleep on you. Most girls are so concerned with how they look when they're around their boyfriend, but now that I think about it, I don't think I've ever legitimately done my hair or anything when I hang out with him.. and he still calls me beautiful. How he'll watch The Secret Life of an American Teenager with me, and ask questions about it the entire time just to sound intrested. How he gets me green tea just because I'm craving it. He'll do anything in the world for me and I love it. I love him, so much.
Next to getting your nails and hair done, it's the best feeling in the world.
August 9, 2011
Just Shut Up.
I'm sick of 'attention seekers'. I can't be the only one that is tired of logging onto Facebook everyday and seeing people post the most insane things! Why must you feel the need to announce everything about your sucky depressed life all over my news feed? Huh? I don't care if you have no friends, if you are abused, or if ya momma hates you. And guess what? Neither does anyone else! If you're ugly, DEAL. Stop posting all over Facebook about how much you hate your life and want to kill yourself. I'm tired of seeing that. And yes, I understand that I can just delete them, but if everyone did that the kid wouldn't have any 'facebook friends'.
That's just Facebook though, you still have your 'real life' attention seekers. The ones that make scenes like:
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But, seriously, shut up.
That's just Facebook though, you still have your 'real life' attention seekers. The ones that make scenes like:
- I'm drunk so I'm going to knock over everything.
- I'm pregnant.
- I cry in public so people stare.
- I broke my arm, so I put an ace bandage on it.
- I was raped.
- I cut myself, wanna see my scars?
- I get high to forget my sucky life.
- I have cancer.
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But, seriously, shut up.
August 3, 2011
Teen Issues, say what?
I've been getting a lot of requests lately about teen issues with so many different topics.
Body Image, I don't know a single girl that doesn't want perfect hair and to be skinny. I've never in my short life met a person that wants to be fat, or have greasy hair. Why you don't shower is beyond me, but hey, whatever floats your boat! If someone doesn't have the 'picture perfect' body image, don't be rude about. It's not like we can all look like Taylor Swift or Drew Barrymore. Your body image can be whatever YOU want it to be. If you have fat genes, girl, get to the gym! You have to TRY to look like you want to look. Do your hair, makeup, and your nails. Wear clothes that don't make you look so homeless, too. Stop expecting to just roll out of bed looking spectacular, because nobody does! The girls in movies, well they're in MOVIES you idiot!
Teenage Pregnancy, Maybe it's just me or condoms and birth control aren't doing their job. Teens are getting pregnant left and right, it seems like. It's like, do you know what safe sex is?! I mean, c'mon. We learn about this stuff in like 5th grade. Even then they tell you, "I know you're 10 years old but here is what a condom is. Use this when having sexual intercourse." Now now, I can understand that sometimes condoms break, or your birth control fails. Or heck, you decided to use the "pull out" method and well, he just didn't do that. I'M not judging you, but people will. People that don't know you are going to think the worst of you. So, before you spit out a kid at 16. READ MY BLOG!
Weight Struggles, Dude, I get it. It's hard to have a sexy body like me. But, you're never going to have it unless you get off of the Internet and do something about it! Sometimes I see these just overweight people, and I mean overweight. Not that little chunky stuff, I mean 'I can't even walk around the grocery store so let me get this electric wheelchair' overweight. I stuns me how people can let go of themselves like that, even if I tried I couldn't look like that! There are so many people that are a little "overweight", doesn't mean they aren't beautiful. I know quite a few chunks that are gorgeous. Don't expect to be amazingly slim after like 2 weeks of dieting, though. You have diet the right way. Not licking the spoon when you fix ice cream does not count as dieting. Get up, exercise and eat right. Then, sit down, eat some 'Special K', and enjoy my blog. (:
- Body Image
- Teenage Pregnancy
- Weight Struggles
- etc.
Body Image, I don't know a single girl that doesn't want perfect hair and to be skinny. I've never in my short life met a person that wants to be fat, or have greasy hair. Why you don't shower is beyond me, but hey, whatever floats your boat! If someone doesn't have the 'picture perfect' body image, don't be rude about. It's not like we can all look like Taylor Swift or Drew Barrymore. Your body image can be whatever YOU want it to be. If you have fat genes, girl, get to the gym! You have to TRY to look like you want to look. Do your hair, makeup, and your nails. Wear clothes that don't make you look so homeless, too. Stop expecting to just roll out of bed looking spectacular, because nobody does! The girls in movies, well they're in MOVIES you idiot!
Teenage Pregnancy, Maybe it's just me or condoms and birth control aren't doing their job. Teens are getting pregnant left and right, it seems like. It's like, do you know what safe sex is?! I mean, c'mon. We learn about this stuff in like 5th grade. Even then they tell you, "I know you're 10 years old but here is what a condom is. Use this when having sexual intercourse." Now now, I can understand that sometimes condoms break, or your birth control fails. Or heck, you decided to use the "pull out" method and well, he just didn't do that. I'M not judging you, but people will. People that don't know you are going to think the worst of you. So, before you spit out a kid at 16. READ MY BLOG!
Weight Struggles, Dude, I get it. It's hard to have a sexy body like me. But, you're never going to have it unless you get off of the Internet and do something about it! Sometimes I see these just overweight people, and I mean overweight. Not that little chunky stuff, I mean 'I can't even walk around the grocery store so let me get this electric wheelchair' overweight. I stuns me how people can let go of themselves like that, even if I tried I couldn't look like that! There are so many people that are a little "overweight", doesn't mean they aren't beautiful. I know quite a few chunks that are gorgeous. Don't expect to be amazingly slim after like 2 weeks of dieting, though. You have diet the right way. Not licking the spoon when you fix ice cream does not count as dieting. Get up, exercise and eat right. Then, sit down, eat some 'Special K', and enjoy my blog. (:
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