Oh, so you're in love?

We all crave that "High School Sweetheart", admit it. We see those cute relationships walking hand in hand and we want that more than anything. We want people to look at us and be jealous of our relationship. We all do. Especially girls. But why? Can anyone give me a legit good reason as to why?
I can.
We think that if we don't have a boyfriend or a girlfriend that there's this empty void in our life that just doesn't ever seem to stay filled. You're in and out of relationships more than you change your underwear and everytime it seems to just get harder and harder. You feel like your whole world is going to just fall apart because one boy. Or mulitple boys. You start checking your phone even though you know he isn't going to text you. You start wondering why you weren't good enough, and you sit in bed and think about it all night and run what you could've done differently through your head. You start to stalk his Facebook wall and ask his friends about him.
Sweetie, give up. Stop giving the time of day, if he was worth it he wouldn't do that to you. I know that what I'm saying probably doesn't even matter to you, because you're just that much in love that nothing can make you feel any less heart broken. If you feel that way; stop reading now.

This is for the girls that WANT to be over it. That want to move on and go back to the way things were before him. I know it's hard, and its not going to get easier anytime soon. So congratualtions for continuing to read this blog. It means you're trying. But I promise, you'll look back on this and you're going to realize what you were giving up all along. The life you were just throwing away because of him. It may take a awhile, months, a year, or even years. But it'll happen, baby. That cowardly bastard isn't going to put a hold on your life forever. Just because he can't stay commited or he's to young to be tied down does NOT mean that there isn't someone out there who isn't. It'll happen. Stop looking for one. Because the minute you actually stop, it'll all start to fall in place. Get your mind off of things. Surround yourself with your friends. Make plans and get out and do something! Delete his number. You probably won't, but that's step one. If you're real about this.. do it. It works, believe me it does. Next, block him from Facebook. So that you don't have to see him or what he posts. Don't just delete him, BLOCK HIM. So that he'll never have to cross your mind more than he already does. When he gets a new girlfriend, don't automatically hate her. Act like they aren't even dating.. I understand that's hard to do to. But suck it up, and do it.
One day, he's going to realize what he lost. He's going to call and say he misses you. That he wants to "go back in time", wishes he never did the things he did to you.
When that happens, it'll be your turn to say no. To laugh at him and tell him to get over it.
And you'll feel darn good doing it, baby. Darn good.